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A Simple Christmas Card

by Theresa Peterson


Abbie, a shy and reserved, started ninth grade in the big-city high school in the center of town. It never occurred to her that she would be lonely. This new school was much too cold and unfriendly.

She walked the halls every day almost invisible; no one spoke to her, so her voice was never heard. It reached the point where she believed that her thoughts weren’t good enough to be heard. So she continued to stay quiet, almost mute. She joined a Christian youth group at a local church, hoping to make friends. She met people who on the outside seemed to welcome her, but who on the inside wished she’d stay out of their group.

Her parents were very worried about her, for they fear she’d never make friends. Her parents tried everything they could to help her fit in. They bought her the clothes and the CDs, but it still didn’t work. Unfortunately, Abbie’s parents didn’t know Abbie was thinking of ending her life. She often cried herself to sleep, believing that no one would ever love her enough to be her real friend.

Her new pal Tammy used her to do her homework by pretending to need help. Even worse, Tammy was leaving Abbie out of the fun she was having. This only pushed Abbie closer to the edge.

By Christmastime Abbie was so upset that she was taking sleeping pills to help her sleep. It seemed as though she was slipping away from the world. Finally, she decided that she would jump off the local bridge on Christmas Eve, while her parents were at a party.

She decided to leave a note in the mailbox; she found that there were already letters in it. She pulled the letters out to see who they were from. There was one from Grandma and Grandpa Knight, a couple from the neighbors… and then she saw one addressed to her. She tore it open. It was a card from one of the guys in the youth group.

 

            Dear Abbie,

                        I want to apologize for not talking with you sooner, but my parents are in the middle of a divorce, so I don’t have a chance to talk with anyone. I was hoping you could help me with some questions I have about divorced kids. I think we could become friends and help each other. See you at Youth Group on Sunday!

            Sincerely your friend,

            Wesley Hill

 

She stared at the card for a while, reading it over and over again, “Become friends,” she smiled, realizing that someone cared about her life and wanted plain, quiet Abbie Knight as a friend. She felt so special.

She turned around and went back to her house. As soon as she walked in the door, she called Wesley. I guess you could say he was a Christmas miracle, because friendship is the best gift you can give anyone.
 

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